Foreword – Laurie Penny
Introduction – Kitty Stryker
IN THE BEDROOM
Sex and Love When You Hate Yourself and Don’t Have Your Shit
Together – JoEllen Notte
The Legal Framework of Consent Is Worthless – AV Flox
The Political Is Personal: A Critique of What Popular Culture
Teaches About Consent (and How to Fix It) – Porscha Coleman
IN THE SCHOOL
Rehearsing Consent Culture: Revolutionary Playtime – Richard M.
Wright
The Power of Men Teaching Men – Shawn D. Taylor
The Green Eggs and Ham Scam – Cherry Zonkowski
IN THE JAIL
Responding to Sexual Harms in Communities: Who Pays and Who Cares?
– Alex Dymock
The Kids Aren’t All Right: Consent and Our Miranda Rights – Navarre
Overton
Just Passing By – Roz Kaveney
IN THE WORKPLACE
“Ethical Porn” Starts When You Pay for It – Jiz Lee
There’s No Rulebook for This – Tobi Hill-Meyer
Service with a Smile Is Not Consent – Cameryn Moore
IN THE HOME
Consent Culture Begins at Home – Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux
Bodily Autonomy for Kids – Akilah S. Richards
To Keep a Roof Over my Head, I Consented to Delaying my Transition
– Laura Kate Dale
IN THE HOSPITAL
Giving Birth When Black – Takeallah Rivera
Fatphobia and Consent: How Social Stigma Mitigates Fat Women’s
Autonomy – Virgie Tovar
Wrestling with Consent (and Also Other Wrestlers) – Jetta Rae
IN THE COMMUNITY
Games, Role-Playing, and Consent – Kate Fractal
Trouble, Lies, and White Fragility: Tips for White People –
Cinnamon Maxxine
Sleeping with Fishes: A Skinny Dip into Sex Parties – Zev Ubu
Hoffman
Sex Is a Life Skill: Sex Ed for the Neuroatypical – Sez
Thomasin
Afterword – Carol Queen
Kitty Stryker is a writer, activist and authority on developing a consent culture in alternative communities. She is the founder of ConsentCulture.com, a hub for LGBT, kinky and polyamorous folks looking for a sex critical approach to relationships, and one of the first people to talk about what a consent culture was and could be. Kitty is the editor of Ask: Building Consent Culture. She co-founded the arty sexy party Kinky Salon London, as well as creating the award-winning Ladies High Tea and Pornography Society. Head of cosplay for queer gaming convention GaymerX, Kitty currently spends a lot of her copious free time playing tabletop role-playing games with her two cats in Oakland, CA. She identifies as an anarchist, asexual, and sober, and while she sometimes serves her community as a street medic, she's happiest drinking tea and reading Emma Goldman to her small garden.
"Ask is a good and definitely past-due read extending the idea of
consent beyond the 'yes means yes' framework, with pieces
exploring, in various ways, what it means to create consent
cultures in a world that is overwhelmingly coercive." Reina
Gattuso, feministing.com
"Like you, I have good intentions. Like you, I know some things
about consent. But I thought I knew a lot more. And if there's one
successful barometer of a book like this, it's how many 'a-ha'
moments it contains. If you're anything like me you will find a lot
of them in this book--some enlightening and pleasurable, many more
uncomfortable and several downright horrific, especially as you
realise your own crimes and also how many times your own consent
has been violated. But you've got to start somewhere and that
somewhere is here." Louisa Leontiades,
thebodyisnotanapology.com
"This is not a handbook, but a wonderful guide that suggests new
ideas about social awareness and responsibility." Claire Foster,
Foreword Reviews
"The collection will prove a useful addition to the toolkit for
those who are working towards not just towards sexual equality, but
equity in all areas of public life." Sofia Kaufman,
michigandaily.com
"As Kitty Stryker, an anti-fascist activist, queer sex educator,
and frequent writer on the topic of consent notes in the
introduction to Ask , 'Most books I found about rape culture and
consent were written by and for middle-class, white, cisgender
women.' She was determined to bring together one that centered
trans and non-binary writers of color. But the book is not only
inclusive in its authorship, it's also expansive in it's coverage
of the multiplicity of contexts in which consent is importantmost
of which are typically overlooked. The anthology, which was
published by Thorntree Press in late October, includes 'Fatphobia
and Consent: How Social Stigma Mitigates Fat Women's Autonomy' by
Virgie Tovar, 'Giving Birth When Black' by Takeallah Rivera, 'The
Kids Aren't All Right: Consent and Our Miranda Rights' by Navarre
Overton, and 27 other essays that range in setting from sex parties
to the service industry. At a time when every conversation seems to
be about consent (or lack thereof, rather), it's a collection that
actually adds to the discussion in crucial ways, and would prove
enriching even to those who consider themselves pros at discussing
sex, consent, and feminism." Sarah Burke, broadly.vice.com
" Foreword Review 's 2017 INDIES winner: honorable mention for
women's studies." www.forewordreviews.com
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