Prologue · We Are Missing the Wisdom of the Elders
Introduction
Chapter 1 · Crisis
Chapter 2 · The Observer
Chapter 3 · It’s Elemental
Chapter 4 · The Story of Water
Chapter 5 · Working with the Element of Water
Chapter 6 · Water Women
Chapter 7 · Water Men
Chapter 8 · The Story of Air
Chapter 9 · Working with the Element of Air
Chapter 10 · Air Women
Chapter 11 · Air Men
Chapter 12 · The Story of Earth
Chapter 13 · Working with the Element of Earth
Chapter 14 · Earth Women
Chapter 15 · Earth Men
Chapter 16 · The Story of Fire
Chapter 17 · Working with the Element of Fire
Chapter 18 · Fire Women
Chapter 19 · Fire Men
Chapter 20 · Conclusion
Appendix · Three Ways to Develop Elemental Wisdom
Over the past 37 years of professional experience and private practice, Debra Silverman has specialized in helping thousands of individuals achieve emotional health and wisdom based on their unique personality and the four elements: water, air earth, and fire. Her work with families, individuals, and couples has her standing out in a sea of therapists and coaches. For more info visit her website: https://debrasilvermanastrology.com
“I am honored to have shared my tale of fire in Debra’s book . She
used my story to be an example that spirit can heal, that addiction
can be overcome. Elemental wisdom is a powerful means to changing
your life. Read on and find out which element you are and watch the
wisdom unfold.”
*Colette Baron-Reid, author of The Enchanted Map Oracle Cards*
"The wisdom of the four directions/elements dates back to ancient
times. It shows up in society after society in slightly different
form but always with the same underlying message. Every living
thing in the material world contains a combination of four primary
elements which must work together in balance in order for existence
to thrive. This is the foundation on which Debra Silverman has
built her clinical practice which combines psychology and
astrology. Now, in this clear and upbeat book, she is teaching
readers to take a step back and learn to observe themselves
objectively instead of reacting in the moment. She asks them to put
what they see into a framework based on the four elements in order
to determine which element is less evident in their behavior than
the others and which is the most prominent. She then goes on to
provide definitive descriptions of how each element manifests, both
when it is in a position of strength and when it is operating on
the shadow side. Let customers know that the book includes
self-surveys, boxed summary charts for easy reference, and
suggested meditations and exercises for putting the information
into action. This is a golden opportunity for them to learn a very
successful system for making positive changes in their lives."
*Anna Jedrziewski, Retailing Insight*
"Psychologist and astrologer Debra Silverman's The Missing Element
encourages spiritual journeying and deep introspection about
reasons for being. A guide to self-awareness, the book Is designed
to inspire both confidence and compassion. The Missing Element is
both an exploration of the four elements that make up every
person--water, air. earth, and fire--and an exhortation to discover
"the missing element"--the "Observer," or as Silverman also puts
it, "the part of you that can stand outside of judgment and see
yourself with a more wise and compassionate approach." Using a
combination of explanation and storytelling, Silverman examines the
four elements individually, demonstrating how each represents a
broad personality type. She includes a brief test that provides the
reader with insight into the makeup of his or her own personality.
For each element, the author presents a section that first tells a
compelling story about a person who characterizes the element, and
then details a four-step program to understand the element's
qualities. Finally, she offers first-person vignettes from women
and men who best represent the element in question. This approach
serves to encapsulate each element as a self-contained unit, thus
making it easy to digest the material without becoming overwhelmed.
Silverman also spends some time discussing the notion of the
Observer, which she sees as a key to unlocking self-awareness.
Understanding the Observer, writes Silverman, allows us to "move
beyond our personal drama and tend to selfless acts of service in a
world that needs help so badly." Ultimately, Silverman believes it
is necessary to embrace one's own failings and human frailty in
order to become a stronger, more complete human being. Steeped in
spirituality, The Missing Element is an enlightening perspective on
the elements that make up our world and each of us, as well as an
honest assessment of the human condition. It is Silverman's often
soaring prose, however, that adds an uplifting quality to the work.
The end result is a book that is candid yet entirely optimistic
about people's ability to learn from pain and find ways to achieve
a personal sense of peace and happiness."
*Barry Silverman, Foreword Magazine*
"Debra Silverman's book The Missing Element in not only the most
captivating and refreshing take on the most important elements of
life, Water, Air, Earth, and Fire, but it a MUST read for anyone
and everyone that wants to have a better understing of themselves
and others. This book helped me to stop and remember why I'm here,
to improve the planet, help others, and follow the path of my soul!
I love how Debra speaks of turning on 'your Observer'. With all the
sadness, judgement, terror, and selfishness in the world today the
simple idea of looking through the lense of the observer instead of
through the eyes of the ego where judgement resides is so profound.
She reminds us that only we have the power to make change. This has
impacted me greatly. Debra Silverman is a true master at her craft,
and undsertanding the bigger picture, and she so kindly is sharing
it with us in her book. I highly recommend this book to anyone,
especially those who want to learn how to inspire compassion for
the human condition. And frankly, everyone could use a little more
compassion... READ THIS BOOK!!!!!"
*Brittany Cerreta*
"In the pages of The Missing Element: Inspiring Compassion for the
Human Condition, author and clinical psychologist Debra Silverman
describes human nature in a compassionate and succinct way.
Everyone longs to be understood and The Missing Element offers ways
for us to get to know ourselves in depth with the wisdom of
archetypes. The information comprising The Missing Element stands
on the shoulders of our elders, who understood the four directions,
the four elements, the four noble truths. Whatever pain you
experience is specific to your personality type, based on the four
elements. Your issues will repeat themselves again and again until
you can see yourself and others from the compassionate vantage
point that unites all of us. You will understand that your life and
all its stories were designed by your soul to get your attention
right now. It is inviting you to seek the wisdom of the ages to
help you grow. Exceptionally well written, organized and presented,
The Missing Element is an extraordinarily informed and informative
read from beginning to end. As thoughtful and thought-provoking as
it is insightful and potentially life-changing, The Missing Element
is very highly recommended for personal and community library
Self-Help/Self-Improvement instructional reference
collections."
*Julie Summers, Midwest Book Review*
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