What is the secret to humanity's evolutionary success? Could it be our strength, our intellect…or something much nicer?
Brian Hare is a professor at the department of evolutionary anthropology and the Center for Cognitive Neuroscience at Duke University. He has a BA in Anthropology and Psychology from Emory University, and a PhD from Harvard University in Biological Anthropology. He is the founder of the Hominoid Psychology Research Group and also the Duke Canine Cognition Center. Vanessa Woods, is a research scientist at Duke University and an award-winning journalist who has written for publications including the New Scientist, BBC Wildlifeand Australian Geographic. She also writes features for the Discovery Channel. Alongside her award-winning children's books, she is the author of the memoirs Bonobo Handshake(2011) and It's Every Monkey for Themselves(2007). @bharedogguy @bonobohandshake
‘Brilliant, eye-opening, and absolutely inspiring – and a riveting
read. Hare and Woods have written the perfect book for our
time.’
*Cass Sunstein, author of How Change Happens and co-author
of Nudge*
‘An utterly persuasive explanation for why the human psyche has
evolved to be dangerous – and what to do about it. It should be
read by every politician and every school-child.’
*Richard Wrangham, author of The Goodness Paradox: The Strange
Relationship Between Virtue and Violence in Human
Evolution*
‘Very few books even attempt to do what this book succeeds in
doing. It begins in basic behavioural science, proceeds to an
analysis of cooperation (or lack thereof) in contemporary society,
and ends with implications for public policy. Everyone should read
this book.’
*Michael Tomasello, author of Origins of Human Communication
and Professor of Psychology and Neuroscience at Duke
University*
‘Please read this beautiful, riveting, and uplifting book. You will
learn the astonishing story of how and why humans evolved a deep
impulse to help total strangers but also sometimes act with
unspeakable cruelty. Just as importantly, you’ll learn how these
insights can help all of us become more compassionate and more
cooperative.’
*Daniel E. Lieberman, author of The Story of the Human Body:
Evolution, Health and Disease and Exercised: Why Something
We Never Evolved to Do is Healthy and Rewarding*
‘Survival of the Friendliest is a fascinating counterpoint to
the popular [mis]conception of Darwin’s ‘survival of the fittest.’
Brian Hare and Vanessa Woods offer a convincing case that it was
not brute strength, raw intelligence, or ruthlessness that allowed
modern humans to thrive while our hominin relatives died out.
Instead, they argue that friendliness was the key to our
flourishing – and that the same kind of cooperative communication
is the key to freeing us from the tribalism currently threatening
democratic governance around the world. Powerful, insightful,
accessible – this book gives me hope.’
*Megan Phelps-Roper, author of Unfollow*
‘How can a top predator like the wolf have evolved to become “man’s
best friend”? Finally a book that explains in the clearest terms
how friendliness and cooperation shaped dogs and humans. This book
left me with a happy and optimistic view of nature.’
*Isabella Rossellini, actress and activist*
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