If you put your wife first, your marriage will flourish. Research supports this - and you will be amazed!
Contents
Foreword 9
Acknowledgments 11
Introduction 13
Chapter One Dear mum 16
Chapter Two Dear dad 24
Chapter Three It wasn’t meant to be like this… 34
Chapter Four For the sake of the children? 47
Chapter Five Happy wife, happy life 65
Chapter Six What mums want 87
Chapter Seven Learning to love 109
Chapter Eight For better, for worse 129
Chapter Nine I love you and want to be close to you 143
Chapter Ten Back from the brink 162
Chapter Eleven Wise friends 174
Appendix 192
Notes 201
Harry Benson is one of Britain’s leading champions for marriage. As research director for Marriage Foundation, his findings are routinely cited in the media and by politicians and have made front page news on several occasions. Harry has spent the last twenty years researching, writing and teaching about marriage and family. Harry is the author of Commit or Quit, What Mums Want (and Dads Need to Know), Let's Stick Together, and Mentoring Marriages.
"Many married men find themselves shocked and surprised when their
wife tells them she wants a divorce a few years after kids come
along. This scenario is provocatively and powerfully explained by
this book. More importantly, Kate and Harry Benson explain how
married fathers can renew their marriages when their wives are
leaning towards leaving. Every dad should read this book."
*W Bradford Wilcox, Director of the National Marriage Project,
University of Virginia, and Senior Fellow, Institute for Family
Studies*
“I love you but you just don’t seem interested in in me.” With
those few words Kate and Harry Benson began a journey that
eventually led to this book. Over many years I have found their
story a true inspiration.
*Rob Parsons, OBE, author of The Sixty Minute Father*
"Once picked up, this fantastic book just won't let you put it
down! Harry and Kate have successfully combined real life
experiences – including ,very honestly ,their own – with hard
earned wisdom and plenty of practical tips to help us strengthen
the most special relationships in our lives, whatever age or stage
we're at."
*Fiona Bruce MP*
We have known Harry and Kate for many years. They are the real
deal. Having rescued their marriage from the brink, they write with
great honesty and give sound, practical advice, backed up by the
latest research, that will give hope to many couples who can't see
a way forward. Everyone will enjoy and benefit from this book, but
for some it will be life-changing.
*Nicky and Sila Lee, authors of The Marriage Course*
“This book has so much for couples to grab hold of to give them
hope for the future: great stories that ooze with optimism
seamlessly interwoven with important research findings that make
mincemeat of the myth that the breakdown of marriage and
relationships is inevitable. Most importantly Harry and Kate are
super-practical about what to look for when you are looking for
help. Read this whatever the State of your Union.”
*Dr Samantha Callan, former advisor to David Cameron on Family and
Society*
“Since we can't all have Harry and Kate as our own private love
guidance gurus, we will have to make do with this super book, which
is really practical and immensely readable – reading it is like
breathing fresh air.”
*Richard and Maria Kane, founders of Marriage Week International*
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