Kathryn Mannix has spent her medical career working with people who have incurable, advanced illnesses. Starting in cancer care and changing career to become a pioneer of the new discipline of palliative medicine, she has worked in teams in hospices, hospitals and in patients' own homes to deliver palliative care, optimising quality of life even as death is approaching. Having qualified as a Cognitive Behaviour Therapist in 1993, she started the UK's (possibly the world's) first CBT clinic exclusively for palliative care patients, and devised 'CBT First Aid' training to enable palliative care colleagues to add new skills to their repertoire for helping patients. Kathryn has worked with many thousands of dying people, and has found their ability to deal with illness and death both fascinating and inspirational. She believes that a better public awareness about what happens as we die would reduce fear and enable people to discuss their hopes and plans with the people who matter to them.
'It is incredibly moving, of course, but what it isn't
is miserable. Yes this is a book about death, but it is
also a book about joy. There aren't all that many books
that change the way you see the world. This book really
might. It will make you want to do a better job of loving
and living. It will make you want to be kinder. And it will make
you want to cherish every precious moment of your precious
'Extraordinary and profoundly moving. ... Any
reader will come away with the wish that they will be cared for at
the end by someone with Mannix's imaginative sympathy and
matter-of-fact generosity of perception'
Rowan Williams, New Statesman
'Illuminating and beautiful ... I shed a few
tears but it's not gut wrenching and Mannix weaves the
light and dark strands of her experience with finesse. It's
essential reading for anyone who will encounter death, and that
means all of us.'
Cathy Rentzenbrink, The Times
'I got to the end of Kathryn Mannix's book with just one thought
- I wish I'd been a palliative consultant ... A reminder that
talking about death is an Act of Love'
'In the last few years, there has been a crowd of books by
doctors, scientists and writers that have sought to show us
different, kinder ways of ending: Atul Gawande, Oliver Sacks, Henry
Marsh... the list is long. Now Kathryn Mannix joins this
distinguished group. Mannix's aim is to shed a soft, clear light on
a subject too often avoided. Mild, tender and
conciliatory, I would like her to be my compassionate,
wise doctor when I lie dying.'